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Unladylike
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Find out what happens when women break the rules - those unwritten but all too real bullsh*t expectations of how we should live our lives. Cristen Conger and Caroline Ervin (formerly Stuff Mom Never Told You) tackle questions through their trademark obsessive research, stories from rule-breakin’ ladies and a solid dose of delightful feminist rage.

Latest Episodes

How to Marry Off Maiden Names

EWomen marrying off their "maiden names" is one of the most enduring gender traditions — and feminist conundrums. Cristen and Caroline pop the questions: What's it really like to choose your maiden name choice, and how does family, race and sexual orientation factor into the choice? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available atpodswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter [unladylike.co]. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by HomeChef [homechef.com/unladylike], thredUP [thredup.com/unladylike], Honeybook [honeybook.com/unladylike], and Acuity [acuityscheduling.com/unladylike].

37 MIN2 d ago
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How to Marry Off Maiden Names

How to Spell 'The L Word' with Ilene Chaiken

EIn early 2000s Hollywood, Ilene Chaiken did the seemingly impossible, co-creating and running a hit TV show entirely about lesbians and queer women. But the iconic television writer, producer and occasional director is no one-hit wonder. Caroline and Cristen talk to Ilene about navigating toxic male egos, tokenization and tough audience feedback on her way to creating all sorts of genre-breaking TV shows that you've definitely watched. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], ThirdLove [ThirdLove.com/unladylike], Vistaprint [Vistaprint.com, promo code UNLADYLIKE50], Modern Ruhles and The Sexual Happiness Podcast by Lovehoney [lovehon...

41 MIN1 w ago
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How to Spell 'The L Word' with Ilene Chaiken

How to Unbridle Horse Girls with Lisa Hanawalt

ESaddle up for a ride through horse-girl country. First, Bojack Horseman designer Lisa Hanawalt shares her personal horse-tery and why horse girls' passion is so often misunderstood. Then, Cristen and Caroline ride along with writer Gray Chapman to one of the largest annual horsey gatherings and take a detour through horse-girl internet. All to find out: What happens when we get off our high horses about horse girls? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], Home Chef [homechef.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], Acuity [acuityscheduling.com/unladylike] and The Sexual Happiness Podcast by Lovehoney [lovehoney....

38 MIN2 w ago
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How to Unbridle Horse Girls with Lisa Hanawalt

How to Demystify Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter

EFor most of medical history, vulvas and vaginas have been mythologized as too dirty, dainty and/or deformed. But gynecologist Jen Gunter is on a mission to detox that douchebaggery. Cristen and Caroline get a check-up on what it really takes to take care of the V's and why haters call her the "vaginal antichrist." Plus, Dr. Gunter answers Unladylike listeners' questions they've always wanted to know but have been too scared to ask other OB/GYNs. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], HoneyBook [honeybook.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], Stitcher Premium [stitcherpremium.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and Wel...

41 MIN3 w ago
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How to Demystify Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter

How to Take on Politics with June Diane Raphael & Jessica Yellin

EWhen politics feels like dumpster fire, how do we still take it on without losing our minds? Actor and activist June Diane Raphael is here to help us reconsider what running for office looks like and how to get started. Plus, former CNN chief White House correspondent Jessica Yellin tell us how to engage with political news, without all the yellin'. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by thredUP [thredup.com/unladylike], Zip Recruiter [ZipRecruiter.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], and Mob Queens.

37 MINOCT 22
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How to Take on Politics with June Diane Raphael & Jessica Yellin

How to Be 'The Bisexual' with Desiree Akhavan

EWhen queerness is out of the closet, what does bisexuality even mean? For bisexual Iranian-American filmmaker Desiree Akhavan, the answer is . . . complicated. Cristen and Caroline talk to Desiree about fitting in, coming out and unlearning rom-com lies about female desire. All to find out: How do you fall in love with your own sexuality - even when you're not supposed to? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Third Love [thirdlove.com/UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], Luden's [ludens.com/coupons], Reset and Tastemade.

37 MINOCT 15
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How to Be 'The Bisexual' with Desiree Akhavan

How to Dive Into Fear

EUnderwater cave explorer Jill Heinerth has dived deeper inside Earth's inner space than any other woman in history, pursuing one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet. This episode, Caroline and Cristen channel their inner mermaids to discover what happens when you swim towards your fear instead of away from it. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available atpodswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter atunladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Stitcher Premium [stitcherpremium.com/unladylike], Away [awaytravel.com/UNLADYLIKE with code UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.comwith code UNLADYLIKE], Honeybook [Honeybook.com/UNLADYLIKE] and Tastemade.

39 MINOCT 8
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How to Dive Into Fear

How Score Equal Pay in Soccer

EThe US Women's National Soccer Team might be wrapping up their World Cup victory tour, but their equal pay lawsuit is far from over. With assists from Meg Linehan of The Athletic and Maya Raghu from the National Women's Law Center, Cristen and Caroline game out what's at stake and why it's relevant to us non-Megan Rapinoes, too. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Flamingo [shopflamingo.com/unladylike], Blume [https://www.blume.com/], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and Tastemade.

42 MINOCT 1
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How Score Equal Pay in Soccer

How to Be Da Baddest Bitch in Hip-Hop

ERap queens are rarely allowed to reign more than one at a time, but Megan Thee Stallion and City Girls are leading a whole stable of up-n-coming female emcees and hip-hop artists blowing up that ladylike standard. Bottom of the Map hosts Christina Lee and Dr. Regina Bradley join Caroline and Cristen to break down how female emcees have redefined sexuality and self-love for themselves, why hip-hop feminism matters, and the icons who made #hotgirlsummer possible. Go listen to the Unladylike x Bottom of the Map playlist on Spotify! Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Zip Recruiter [ZipRecruiter.com/unladylike], Third Love [ThirdLove.com/unladylike], Thred Up [thredup.com/...

40 MINSEP 24
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How to Be Da Baddest Bitch in Hip-Hop

How to Own Your Talent with Ashley Nicole Black

EComedy writer and actor Ashley Nicole Black knows what she's good at. But that almost derailed her path to landing "Full Frontal with Samantha Bee" and now co-starring on HBO's "A Black Lady Sketch Show." Find out how Ashley flipped her life script, ditched a doctorate, and improvised all the way to the Emmys. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by the Money Ha Ha podcast, HoneyBook [HoneyBook.com/UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and the podcasts Uncharted: Seattle and Hot & Bothered [hotandbotheredrompod.com].

42 MINSEP 17
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How to Own Your Talent with Ashley Nicole Black

Latest Episodes

How to Marry Off Maiden Names

EWomen marrying off their "maiden names" is one of the most enduring gender traditions — and feminist conundrums. Cristen and Caroline pop the questions: What's it really like to choose your maiden name choice, and how does family, race and sexual orientation factor into the choice? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available atpodswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter [unladylike.co]. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by HomeChef [homechef.com/unladylike], thredUP [thredup.com/unladylike], Honeybook [honeybook.com/unladylike], and Acuity [acuityscheduling.com/unladylike].

37 MIN2 d ago
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How to Marry Off Maiden Names

How to Spell 'The L Word' with Ilene Chaiken

EIn early 2000s Hollywood, Ilene Chaiken did the seemingly impossible, co-creating and running a hit TV show entirely about lesbians and queer women. But the iconic television writer, producer and occasional director is no one-hit wonder. Caroline and Cristen talk to Ilene about navigating toxic male egos, tokenization and tough audience feedback on her way to creating all sorts of genre-breaking TV shows that you've definitely watched. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], ThirdLove [ThirdLove.com/unladylike], Vistaprint [Vistaprint.com, promo code UNLADYLIKE50], Modern Ruhles and The Sexual Happiness Podcast by Lovehoney [lovehon...

41 MIN1 w ago
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How to Spell 'The L Word' with Ilene Chaiken

How to Unbridle Horse Girls with Lisa Hanawalt

ESaddle up for a ride through horse-girl country. First, Bojack Horseman designer Lisa Hanawalt shares her personal horse-tery and why horse girls' passion is so often misunderstood. Then, Cristen and Caroline ride along with writer Gray Chapman to one of the largest annual horsey gatherings and take a detour through horse-girl internet. All to find out: What happens when we get off our high horses about horse girls? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], Home Chef [homechef.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], Acuity [acuityscheduling.com/unladylike] and The Sexual Happiness Podcast by Lovehoney [lovehoney....

38 MIN2 w ago
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How to Unbridle Horse Girls with Lisa Hanawalt

How to Demystify Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter

EFor most of medical history, vulvas and vaginas have been mythologized as too dirty, dainty and/or deformed. But gynecologist Jen Gunter is on a mission to detox that douchebaggery. Cristen and Caroline get a check-up on what it really takes to take care of the V's and why haters call her the "vaginal antichrist." Plus, Dr. Gunter answers Unladylike listeners' questions they've always wanted to know but have been too scared to ask other OB/GYNs. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], HoneyBook [honeybook.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], Stitcher Premium [stitcherpremium.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and Wel...

41 MIN3 w ago
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How to Demystify Vaginas with Dr. Jen Gunter

How to Take on Politics with June Diane Raphael & Jessica Yellin

EWhen politics feels like dumpster fire, how do we still take it on without losing our minds? Actor and activist June Diane Raphael is here to help us reconsider what running for office looks like and how to get started. Plus, former CNN chief White House correspondent Jessica Yellin tell us how to engage with political news, without all the yellin'. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by thredUP [thredup.com/unladylike], Zip Recruiter [ZipRecruiter.com/unladylike], Luden's [Amazon.com with code 15UNLADYLIKE], and Mob Queens.

37 MINOCT 22
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How to Take on Politics with June Diane Raphael & Jessica Yellin

How to Be 'The Bisexual' with Desiree Akhavan

EWhen queerness is out of the closet, what does bisexuality even mean? For bisexual Iranian-American filmmaker Desiree Akhavan, the answer is . . . complicated. Cristen and Caroline talk to Desiree about fitting in, coming out and unlearning rom-com lies about female desire. All to find out: How do you fall in love with your own sexuality - even when you're not supposed to? Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Third Love [thirdlove.com/UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE], Luden's [ludens.com/coupons], Reset and Tastemade.

37 MINOCT 15
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How to Be 'The Bisexual' with Desiree Akhavan

How to Dive Into Fear

EUnderwater cave explorer Jill Heinerth has dived deeper inside Earth's inner space than any other woman in history, pursuing one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet. This episode, Caroline and Cristen channel their inner mermaids to discover what happens when you swim towards your fear instead of away from it. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available atpodswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter atunladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Stitcher Premium [stitcherpremium.com/unladylike], Away [awaytravel.com/UNLADYLIKE with code UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.comwith code UNLADYLIKE], Honeybook [Honeybook.com/UNLADYLIKE] and Tastemade.

39 MINOCT 8
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How to Dive Into Fear

How Score Equal Pay in Soccer

EThe US Women's National Soccer Team might be wrapping up their World Cup victory tour, but their equal pay lawsuit is far from over. With assists from Meg Linehan of The Athletic and Maya Raghu from the National Women's Law Center, Cristen and Caroline game out what's at stake and why it's relevant to us non-Megan Rapinoes, too. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Flamingo [shopflamingo.com/unladylike], Blume [https://www.blume.com/], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and Tastemade.

42 MINOCT 1
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How Score Equal Pay in Soccer

How to Be Da Baddest Bitch in Hip-Hop

ERap queens are rarely allowed to reign more than one at a time, but Megan Thee Stallion and City Girls are leading a whole stable of up-n-coming female emcees and hip-hop artists blowing up that ladylike standard. Bottom of the Map hosts Christina Lee and Dr. Regina Bradley join Caroline and Cristen to break down how female emcees have redefined sexuality and self-love for themselves, why hip-hop feminism matters, and the icons who made #hotgirlsummer possible. Go listen to the Unladylike x Bottom of the Map playlist on Spotify! Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by Zip Recruiter [ZipRecruiter.com/unladylike], Third Love [ThirdLove.com/unladylike], Thred Up [thredup.com/...

40 MINSEP 24
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How to Be Da Baddest Bitch in Hip-Hop

How to Own Your Talent with Ashley Nicole Black

EComedy writer and actor Ashley Nicole Black knows what she's good at. But that almost derailed her path to landing "Full Frontal with Samantha Bee" and now co-starring on HBO's "A Black Lady Sketch Show." Find out how Ashley flipped her life script, ditched a doctorate, and improvised all the way to the Emmys. Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike. Follow Unladylike on social unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. And join our Facebook group! This episode is brought to you by the Money Ha Ha podcast, HoneyBook [HoneyBook.com/UNLADYLIKE], Pact [wearpact.com with code UNLADYLIKE] and the podcasts Uncharted: Seattle and Hot & Bothered [hotandbotheredrompod.com].

42 MINSEP 17
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How to Own Your Talent with Ashley Nicole Black
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