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Feral Attraction

Feral Attraction

Feral Attraction

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Relationship advice for the furry community

Latest Episodes

FA 108 Toxic Popularity

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of the sexualization of animals, and the various forms such sexualization can take (zoophilia, bestiality, zoosadism). Guest host Klik Wolf joins us to discuss our main topic, toxic popularity — we talk about how the desire to become popular can turn some well-meaning furs into people they don’t want to be. We close with advice about becoming more dominant in bed.

79 MIN2018 DEC 20
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FA 108 Toxic Popularity

FA 107 Friendship

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of the history of happiness, and why happiness may be elusive. Soatok Dhole joins us to discuss our main topic, friendship — what is a good friendship, when is the right time to distance yourself from a friend, and how do you revive a fading friendship worth saving? We close with a question about how to handle developing feelings for a straight roommate.

91 MIN2018 SEP 18
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FA 107 Friendship

FA 106 Reconnecting With Family

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of how the most relaxing vacation may be going nowhere at all. Rhythm fox joins us to discuss our main topic, which is reconnecting with family after a falling out. We close with a question about recovering from a toxic relationship.

43 MIN2018 AUG 16
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FA 106 Reconnecting With Family

FA 105 Choosing Your Values

EOn this week’s show we open with an explanation of where Feral Attraction has been for the last few months. Our main topic is choosing your values; what are values, where do they come from, and how do we choose the values that will support what we most want to experience in life? We close with a question about handling communication between mates when a poly triad becomes a vee.

97 MIN2018 AUG 2
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FA 105 Choosing Your Values

Sexual Roles

EHello Everyone! We open this week with a discussion on FOSTA. This is an American bill that is soon to become law that is having a chilling effect on how we use the internet, and the impacts are being felt worldwide. We discuss what the bill is, why it's ten types of awful, and how this impacts the furry fandom. We at Feral Attraction would encourage those who feel so inclined to visit the Electronic Frontier Foundationto learn even more and find ways you can resist this awful legislation. Our main topic is on sexual roles. We go over the different axes that are present when it comes to sexual determination and how everything is fluid and in motion. We talk about how the persona you portray becomes your truth and the beacon by which you attract people in your life, how pretense is prologue and determines the lifestyle that you lead, and why it's not a bad idea to experiment with your sexual roles. We close out this episode with a question on poly and friendship. Our questioner is in...

-1 s2018 MAR 30
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Sexual Roles

Life Transitions

EHello everyone! We open this week with a discussion on to best mediate conflicts in relationships. While this is a topic that we've covered before we wanted to present an alternate take from one of the main contributors from PolyWeekly, LustyGuy, as he offers his views on how to fight fair in a relationship to ensure everyone has the maximum potential to "win". Our main topic is on transitions. During the course of last week's episode we discovered that this was a topic that we both wanted to delve into, so here we are. We talk about what the more common transitions that we will face in life are, and the ways we can best broach them, prepare for them, and thrive from them. We close out this week's show with a question about compatibility. Our questioner keeps dating guys that he discovers aren't compatible with him once they start dating. Is this a question of romantic connection, vulnerability, or of being true to yourself? For more information, including a list of topics, see ourS...

99 MIN2018 MAR 23
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Life Transitions

Maintaining Independence in a Relationship

EHello Everyone! We open this week's show with a discussion on our appearance on the wonderful podcast, Life on the Swingset. You can hear us talk about ethical non-monogamy in the fandom on Episode 317 BY CLICKING HEREor by visiting their website, lifeontheswingset.com. We also talk about why loving someone else isn't always enough to make love happen. We go over why unrequited love can often feel so strong and certain yet it goes absolutely nowhere. Our main topic is on how to maintain independence in a relationship. We talk about why it's important to do so, what happens when you become codependent, and ways to practice independent living. We close out the show with a question of mismatched motivation drives in a relationship. Is this a relationship killer, or can this be overcome? For more information, including a list of topics, see our Show Notesfor this episode. Thanks and, as always, be well!

112 MIN2018 MAR 16
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Maintaining Independence in a Relationship

Stale Relationships

EHello everyone! We open this week's show with an exciting announcement about our upcoming guest appearance on the Life on the Swingset podcast! Thanks again to our lovely hosts for inviting us-- we had a blast and please feel free to stop by our show anytime! We also discuss the latest comic from OhJoySexToy that focuses on discovering polyamory and the mistakes that people often encounter. Our main topic this week is on Stale Relationships. We discuss what makes a relationship stale, how to reinvigorate a relationship that's gotten routine, and how to identify if it's even a relationship that is salvageable. We close out the show with some feedback on Episode 071 concerning our advice to the questioner on real life appearance vs online presence and a question from our Telegram chat (salut Tiyu) that asks whether or not a quarter-life furry crisis is something that people go through within our fandom. For more information, including a list of topics, see ourShow Notesfor this episod...

152 MIN2018 MAR 9
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Stale Relationships

Difficult Decisions

EHello Everyone! We open this week's episode with an actual retrospective of the show. As it is our 100th episode we wanted to take some time to reflect on the show. We talk about why we started the show, how we've grown in doing the show, and how we've seen the fandom (and culture in general) change in the two years we've been doing the show.We then talk about the future of the show and our personal futures and what plans we have coming up. We then launch into the main topic for this week, difficult decisions. In an average day we make 70 active decisions, and oftentimes we find ourselves overburdened with the choices we make. Metriko talks about his decision making process and how he's worked to improve and streamline it to be manageable and more helpful than stressful. For more information, including a list of topics, see ourShow Notesfor this episode. Thanks and, as always, be well!

101 MIN2018 MAR 2
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Difficult Decisions

Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy

EHello everyone! We open this week's show with a discussion our panel on TFF. We then launch into a conversation about a recent article from the New York Times about how porn might be causing harm in the approach teenagers have toward sexual encounters. We discuss whether or not porn should be expected to be an educator for sex and what we can do better on a societal level. Our main topic is on Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy. We've had many episodes on how to use nonviolent communication. This is only half of the equation, and that you must employ active listening skills in order to maintain empathy and find a way to bridge the divide between perspectives. We also talk about the terrifying concept that we as people can be fallible and oftentimes are the ones who are causing stress in a relationship, and how we can employ active listening to lower our barriers and identify ways to communicate and reciprocate everyone's wants and needs in a relationship. We close out the show...

106 MIN2018 FEB 15
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Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy

Latest Episodes

FA 108 Toxic Popularity

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of the sexualization of animals, and the various forms such sexualization can take (zoophilia, bestiality, zoosadism). Guest host Klik Wolf joins us to discuss our main topic, toxic popularity — we talk about how the desire to become popular can turn some well-meaning furs into people they don’t want to be. We close with advice about becoming more dominant in bed.

79 MIN2018 DEC 20
Comments
FA 108 Toxic Popularity

FA 107 Friendship

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of the history of happiness, and why happiness may be elusive. Soatok Dhole joins us to discuss our main topic, friendship — what is a good friendship, when is the right time to distance yourself from a friend, and how do you revive a fading friendship worth saving? We close with a question about how to handle developing feelings for a straight roommate.

91 MIN2018 SEP 18
Comments
FA 107 Friendship

FA 106 Reconnecting With Family

EOn this week’s show we open with a discussion of how the most relaxing vacation may be going nowhere at all. Rhythm fox joins us to discuss our main topic, which is reconnecting with family after a falling out. We close with a question about recovering from a toxic relationship.

43 MIN2018 AUG 16
Comments
FA 106 Reconnecting With Family

FA 105 Choosing Your Values

EOn this week’s show we open with an explanation of where Feral Attraction has been for the last few months. Our main topic is choosing your values; what are values, where do they come from, and how do we choose the values that will support what we most want to experience in life? We close with a question about handling communication between mates when a poly triad becomes a vee.

97 MIN2018 AUG 2
Comments
FA 105 Choosing Your Values

Sexual Roles

EHello Everyone! We open this week with a discussion on FOSTA. This is an American bill that is soon to become law that is having a chilling effect on how we use the internet, and the impacts are being felt worldwide. We discuss what the bill is, why it's ten types of awful, and how this impacts the furry fandom. We at Feral Attraction would encourage those who feel so inclined to visit the Electronic Frontier Foundationto learn even more and find ways you can resist this awful legislation. Our main topic is on sexual roles. We go over the different axes that are present when it comes to sexual determination and how everything is fluid and in motion. We talk about how the persona you portray becomes your truth and the beacon by which you attract people in your life, how pretense is prologue and determines the lifestyle that you lead, and why it's not a bad idea to experiment with your sexual roles. We close out this episode with a question on poly and friendship. Our questioner is in...

-1 s2018 MAR 30
Comments
Sexual Roles

Life Transitions

EHello everyone! We open this week with a discussion on to best mediate conflicts in relationships. While this is a topic that we've covered before we wanted to present an alternate take from one of the main contributors from PolyWeekly, LustyGuy, as he offers his views on how to fight fair in a relationship to ensure everyone has the maximum potential to "win". Our main topic is on transitions. During the course of last week's episode we discovered that this was a topic that we both wanted to delve into, so here we are. We talk about what the more common transitions that we will face in life are, and the ways we can best broach them, prepare for them, and thrive from them. We close out this week's show with a question about compatibility. Our questioner keeps dating guys that he discovers aren't compatible with him once they start dating. Is this a question of romantic connection, vulnerability, or of being true to yourself? For more information, including a list of topics, see ourS...

99 MIN2018 MAR 23
Comments
Life Transitions

Maintaining Independence in a Relationship

EHello Everyone! We open this week's show with a discussion on our appearance on the wonderful podcast, Life on the Swingset. You can hear us talk about ethical non-monogamy in the fandom on Episode 317 BY CLICKING HEREor by visiting their website, lifeontheswingset.com. We also talk about why loving someone else isn't always enough to make love happen. We go over why unrequited love can often feel so strong and certain yet it goes absolutely nowhere. Our main topic is on how to maintain independence in a relationship. We talk about why it's important to do so, what happens when you become codependent, and ways to practice independent living. We close out the show with a question of mismatched motivation drives in a relationship. Is this a relationship killer, or can this be overcome? For more information, including a list of topics, see our Show Notesfor this episode. Thanks and, as always, be well!

112 MIN2018 MAR 16
Comments
Maintaining Independence in a Relationship

Stale Relationships

EHello everyone! We open this week's show with an exciting announcement about our upcoming guest appearance on the Life on the Swingset podcast! Thanks again to our lovely hosts for inviting us-- we had a blast and please feel free to stop by our show anytime! We also discuss the latest comic from OhJoySexToy that focuses on discovering polyamory and the mistakes that people often encounter. Our main topic this week is on Stale Relationships. We discuss what makes a relationship stale, how to reinvigorate a relationship that's gotten routine, and how to identify if it's even a relationship that is salvageable. We close out the show with some feedback on Episode 071 concerning our advice to the questioner on real life appearance vs online presence and a question from our Telegram chat (salut Tiyu) that asks whether or not a quarter-life furry crisis is something that people go through within our fandom. For more information, including a list of topics, see ourShow Notesfor this episod...

152 MIN2018 MAR 9
Comments
Stale Relationships

Difficult Decisions

EHello Everyone! We open this week's episode with an actual retrospective of the show. As it is our 100th episode we wanted to take some time to reflect on the show. We talk about why we started the show, how we've grown in doing the show, and how we've seen the fandom (and culture in general) change in the two years we've been doing the show.We then talk about the future of the show and our personal futures and what plans we have coming up. We then launch into the main topic for this week, difficult decisions. In an average day we make 70 active decisions, and oftentimes we find ourselves overburdened with the choices we make. Metriko talks about his decision making process and how he's worked to improve and streamline it to be manageable and more helpful than stressful. For more information, including a list of topics, see ourShow Notesfor this episode. Thanks and, as always, be well!

101 MIN2018 MAR 2
Comments
Difficult Decisions

Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy

EHello everyone! We open this week's show with a discussion our panel on TFF. We then launch into a conversation about a recent article from the New York Times about how porn might be causing harm in the approach teenagers have toward sexual encounters. We discuss whether or not porn should be expected to be an educator for sex and what we can do better on a societal level. Our main topic is on Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy. We've had many episodes on how to use nonviolent communication. This is only half of the equation, and that you must employ active listening skills in order to maintain empathy and find a way to bridge the divide between perspectives. We also talk about the terrifying concept that we as people can be fallible and oftentimes are the ones who are causing stress in a relationship, and how we can employ active listening to lower our barriers and identify ways to communicate and reciprocate everyone's wants and needs in a relationship. We close out the show...

106 MIN2018 FEB 15
Comments
Active Listening and Maintaining Empathy

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