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SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver

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SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver

7
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100
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SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create is devoted to helping you discover your own erotic journey. Whether you’re new to exploring your sexual boundaries, or seeking your next exciting adventure, we’re here to give you access to all the resources you need to illuminate the roads along the path of your individual sexual enlightenment.Each show will feature experts in their respective fields, who will open your mind up to new ideas, so you can discover who you are and connect with SDC.com’s communities to create unique moments and experiences within your own erotic tribe, in a safe environment.No topic will be too taboo as we answer a wide range of important questions about sexuality, relationships and health, with expert guidance from leading health and sexuality professionals.You can unearth the ways in which you choose to express yourself freely, while connecting with like-minded individuals to join you as you explore yourself and your own needs and desires.

Latest Episodes

The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

EWhat is it really like to be a swinger? Mr. Mocha, the co-producer of the lifestyle podcast Ofacez, joins host Lexi Sylver to share some of his wisdom gained from over a decade of swinging. They debunk myths that newbies have when they first enter the open lifestyle and become swingers, and the importance of trust, honesty, and communication as being central to all types of healthy relationships. They explore intimacy versus sex, differences between cheating in monogamous relationships versus ethical non-monogamy, and the ways in which they enjoy certain freedoms within the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha also delves into some of his personal experiences of himself and Mrs. Mocha, who are an interracial couple, being on the receiving end of racism and discrimination both within and outside of the swinging lifestyle. He offers insight and perspective for those having trouble understanding the Black Lives Matter movement and systemic racism, giving actionable advice to create meaningful change.

65 MIN5 d ago
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The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

EHow can strap-ons help increase our pleasure during partnered sex? Host Lexi Sylver invites pleasure expert Luna Matatas to discuss the fundamentals of strap-on sex and the fun things we can do with strap-ons. They cover anal sex, pegging, strap-on play for people with vulvas as well as for folks with prostates, and how to incorporate strap-ons to spice up threesomes and other kinds of group sex. Luna provides her expert tips on how to know what kinds of harnesses and dildos can be used for different kinds of play, along with beginner and professional tips for tops and bottoms to make strap-on sex extra pleasurable for everyone involved. They also discuss how to communicate strap-on fantasies with their partner(s) and how to check in during strap-on sex to ensure everyone’s pleasure. During Letters to Lexi, they also provide their advice for couples new to strap-on play, pegging and threesomes, including how a heterosexual couple can prepare to have a spicy threesome with a unicorn.

60 MIN1 w ago
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Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

EWhat do you actually know about the porn industry? Do you want to find out how adult entertainment is evolving to empower women? If you want to delve more deeply into how pornography can become more ethical and driven towards female pleasure, join me today with award-winning adult film stars and producers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, co-owners of Royal Fetish Films, here to share the insight and experience they’ve acquired after over 20 years in the industry. Jasmine and King Noire are going to challenge what we think we know about porn, and what they’re doing differently to help steer the conversation about female sexuality in a more positive and empowering direction. We talk about how good porn can help create positive change within society about the importance of celebrating female pleasure, and the beauty of the female body. We cover important issues like combating sexism, racism and stereotypes within the porn industry, and what it means to create ethical porn.

60 MIN2 w ago
Comments
Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

STIs and STDs: Removing Shame and Stigma

EWhy is talking about our sexual health such a taboo topic? How can we overcome feelings of shame and negative stigma surrounding sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? Our host Lexi Sylver invites Courtney Brame, the founder of Something Positive for Positive People (SPFPP), for an open and personal discussion about sexual health. Courtney shares his personal experience receiving a positive herpes diagnosis and why he was inspired to start his podcast to discuss others’ stories about their positive diagnoses. He explains how having an STI or an STD doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. Courtney suggests the best ways to inform yourself and who to talk to about your physical and mental health, good ways to disclose your positive status to your current partner(s) and potential new partner(s) and what to do when you get diagnosed. Lexi and Courtney answer Letters to Lexi and offer advice on safe sex, navigating disclosure and more.

60 MIN3 w ago
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STIs and STDs: Removing Shame and Stigma

Encore: Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

EWhat’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

60 MINJUN 9
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Encore: Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

EWhat’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

50 MINJUN 2
Comments
Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

Building Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

EAre you interested in non-monogamous relationships? Are you curious about the best ways to navigate your first steps into the sexy world of consensual non-monogamy (also known as ethical non-monogamy)? Join me today with Dr. Liz Powell, licensed psychologist specializing in non-traditional relationships, and author of the book Building Open Relationships. We’re going to explore different kinds of non-monogamous relationships and what each of those look like; how to develop and maintain healthy and ethical non-monogamy with your partner or partners, and the best communication tips to keep prevent and resolve potential conflict. Dr. Liz Powell is also going to talk about how to be authentic with your partner(s) or your potential new partner(s) as you let them know your interest in non-monogamy, as well as how to best frame those conversations to evoke a more positive reaction from them, and what to do if your partner isn’t as interested in the concept of non-monogamy as you are.

60 MINMAY 26
Comments
Building Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

Open Relationships and The Swinging Lifestyle

EWhat is it really like to be in an open relationship and the swinging lifestyle? How can you start to explore the lifestyle and have pleasurable experiences with your partner while maintaining a healthy relationship? Host Lexi Sylver is joined by lifestyle experts John and Jackie Melfi of Openlove 101, who were recently interviewed by CNN’s Lisa Ling for an episode of “This is Life”. They delve into John and Jackie’s relationship and their first swinging experience, as well as what being in the lifestyle means to them. They debunk myths about the lifestyle when it comes to who takes the lead, and prove that the swinging lifestyle is not all about sex. Jackie and Lexi talk about the sexual empowerment that women feel in the lifestyle. John and Jackie give advice for building healthy open relationships, how newbies to the lifestyle can talk to their partner before going to a swinger’s club for the first time, how to manage expectations, and what to do when swinging goes wrong.

60 MINMAY 19
Comments
Open Relationships and The Swinging Lifestyle

Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

ETo celebrate the new release of her erotic book, Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, our show’s producer and host Lexi Sylver flies solo to talk about erotica… and teases you with a sexy reading from one of her stories! She also talks about how erotic literature has become more popular in recent years, and how newer erotica is more diverse and representative when it comes to characters and settings. She discusses how gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation are explored in her book. Lexi explains the reasons why people may enjoy reading erotica and all the benefits of reading and writing erotic stories and sharing them with their lover(s). She examines how erotica is an underrated tool of seduction that can be incorporated into your partnered sex life to explore new fantasies. Lexi discusses the benefits of writing erotica, along with some tips on how you can write your own erotic story. She wraps up by answering questions from the audience in Letters to Lexi.

60 MINMAY 12
Comments
Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

EWhat’s the big deal about masturbation? Why is there more shame and stigma for women when it comes to self-pleasure? Host Lexi Sylver invites sex educator and sex toy expert Julieta Chiara to discuss all the benefits of masturbation. They cover how self-pleasure is often rooted in shame, and how to change your mentality about touching yourself. Julieta offers tips for people looking to change up their masturbation routine, explore your body and experience more pleasure. She also explains how varying your repertoire can help improve your sex life. Lexi and Julieta discuss how mutual masturbation can increase the intimacy in your relationship and show your partner what you enjoy. They explore how sex toys can enhance partnered sex and how to communicate with your partner about what feels good and new things you want to try. Julieta and Lexi also talk about anal stimulation, warming up and how to make anal experiences more comfortable and pleasurable.

60 MINMAY 5
Comments
Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

Latest Episodes

The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

EWhat is it really like to be a swinger? Mr. Mocha, the co-producer of the lifestyle podcast Ofacez, joins host Lexi Sylver to share some of his wisdom gained from over a decade of swinging. They debunk myths that newbies have when they first enter the open lifestyle and become swingers, and the importance of trust, honesty, and communication as being central to all types of healthy relationships. They explore intimacy versus sex, differences between cheating in monogamous relationships versus ethical non-monogamy, and the ways in which they enjoy certain freedoms within the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha also delves into some of his personal experiences of himself and Mrs. Mocha, who are an interracial couple, being on the receiving end of racism and discrimination both within and outside of the swinging lifestyle. He offers insight and perspective for those having trouble understanding the Black Lives Matter movement and systemic racism, giving actionable advice to create meaningful change.

65 MIN5 d ago
Comments
The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

EHow can strap-ons help increase our pleasure during partnered sex? Host Lexi Sylver invites pleasure expert Luna Matatas to discuss the fundamentals of strap-on sex and the fun things we can do with strap-ons. They cover anal sex, pegging, strap-on play for people with vulvas as well as for folks with prostates, and how to incorporate strap-ons to spice up threesomes and other kinds of group sex. Luna provides her expert tips on how to know what kinds of harnesses and dildos can be used for different kinds of play, along with beginner and professional tips for tops and bottoms to make strap-on sex extra pleasurable for everyone involved. They also discuss how to communicate strap-on fantasies with their partner(s) and how to check in during strap-on sex to ensure everyone’s pleasure. During Letters to Lexi, they also provide their advice for couples new to strap-on play, pegging and threesomes, including how a heterosexual couple can prepare to have a spicy threesome with a unicorn.

60 MIN1 w ago
Comments
Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

EWhat do you actually know about the porn industry? Do you want to find out how adult entertainment is evolving to empower women? If you want to delve more deeply into how pornography can become more ethical and driven towards female pleasure, join me today with award-winning adult film stars and producers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, co-owners of Royal Fetish Films, here to share the insight and experience they’ve acquired after over 20 years in the industry. Jasmine and King Noire are going to challenge what we think we know about porn, and what they’re doing differently to help steer the conversation about female sexuality in a more positive and empowering direction. We talk about how good porn can help create positive change within society about the importance of celebrating female pleasure, and the beauty of the female body. We cover important issues like combating sexism, racism and stereotypes within the porn industry, and what it means to create ethical porn.

60 MIN2 w ago
Comments
Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

STIs and STDs: Removing Shame and Stigma

EWhy is talking about our sexual health such a taboo topic? How can we overcome feelings of shame and negative stigma surrounding sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? Our host Lexi Sylver invites Courtney Brame, the founder of Something Positive for Positive People (SPFPP), for an open and personal discussion about sexual health. Courtney shares his personal experience receiving a positive herpes diagnosis and why he was inspired to start his podcast to discuss others’ stories about their positive diagnoses. He explains how having an STI or an STD doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. Courtney suggests the best ways to inform yourself and who to talk to about your physical and mental health, good ways to disclose your positive status to your current partner(s) and potential new partner(s) and what to do when you get diagnosed. Lexi and Courtney answer Letters to Lexi and offer advice on safe sex, navigating disclosure and more.

60 MIN3 w ago
Comments
STIs and STDs: Removing Shame and Stigma

Encore: Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

EWhat’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

60 MINJUN 9
Comments
Encore: Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

EWhat’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

50 MINJUN 2
Comments
Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

Building Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

EAre you interested in non-monogamous relationships? Are you curious about the best ways to navigate your first steps into the sexy world of consensual non-monogamy (also known as ethical non-monogamy)? Join me today with Dr. Liz Powell, licensed psychologist specializing in non-traditional relationships, and author of the book Building Open Relationships. We’re going to explore different kinds of non-monogamous relationships and what each of those look like; how to develop and maintain healthy and ethical non-monogamy with your partner or partners, and the best communication tips to keep prevent and resolve potential conflict. Dr. Liz Powell is also going to talk about how to be authentic with your partner(s) or your potential new partner(s) as you let them know your interest in non-monogamy, as well as how to best frame those conversations to evoke a more positive reaction from them, and what to do if your partner isn’t as interested in the concept of non-monogamy as you are.

60 MINMAY 26
Comments
Building Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

Open Relationships and The Swinging Lifestyle

EWhat is it really like to be in an open relationship and the swinging lifestyle? How can you start to explore the lifestyle and have pleasurable experiences with your partner while maintaining a healthy relationship? Host Lexi Sylver is joined by lifestyle experts John and Jackie Melfi of Openlove 101, who were recently interviewed by CNN’s Lisa Ling for an episode of “This is Life”. They delve into John and Jackie’s relationship and their first swinging experience, as well as what being in the lifestyle means to them. They debunk myths about the lifestyle when it comes to who takes the lead, and prove that the swinging lifestyle is not all about sex. Jackie and Lexi talk about the sexual empowerment that women feel in the lifestyle. John and Jackie give advice for building healthy open relationships, how newbies to the lifestyle can talk to their partner before going to a swinger’s club for the first time, how to manage expectations, and what to do when swinging goes wrong.

60 MINMAY 19
Comments
Open Relationships and The Swinging Lifestyle

Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

ETo celebrate the new release of her erotic book, Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, our show’s producer and host Lexi Sylver flies solo to talk about erotica… and teases you with a sexy reading from one of her stories! She also talks about how erotic literature has become more popular in recent years, and how newer erotica is more diverse and representative when it comes to characters and settings. She discusses how gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation are explored in her book. Lexi explains the reasons why people may enjoy reading erotica and all the benefits of reading and writing erotic stories and sharing them with their lover(s). She examines how erotica is an underrated tool of seduction that can be incorporated into your partnered sex life to explore new fantasies. Lexi discusses the benefits of writing erotica, along with some tips on how you can write your own erotic story. She wraps up by answering questions from the audience in Letters to Lexi.

60 MINMAY 12
Comments
Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

EWhat’s the big deal about masturbation? Why is there more shame and stigma for women when it comes to self-pleasure? Host Lexi Sylver invites sex educator and sex toy expert Julieta Chiara to discuss all the benefits of masturbation. They cover how self-pleasure is often rooted in shame, and how to change your mentality about touching yourself. Julieta offers tips for people looking to change up their masturbation routine, explore your body and experience more pleasure. She also explains how varying your repertoire can help improve your sex life. Lexi and Julieta discuss how mutual masturbation can increase the intimacy in your relationship and show your partner what you enjoy. They explore how sex toys can enhance partnered sex and how to communicate with your partner about what feels good and new things you want to try. Julieta and Lexi also talk about anal stimulation, warming up and how to make anal experiences more comfortable and pleasurable.

60 MINMAY 5
Comments
Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

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