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Friend in my Head

Friend in my Head

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Friend in my Head

Friend in my Head

Friend in my Head

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A weekly convo with two women of a particular age that many of you have referred to as "friend in my head" for years. We'll give you advice as only Drea & Jia can deliver it...a little sass and a side-eye or two, but always honest. Join us every Friday for your weekly cackles with your favorite cool aunties!

Latest Episodes

The Roster Gon' Prosper

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! 2020 is filled with a lot of things, but one thing it’s never short of is audacity. Grown men are asking for money outchea, ladies & gentlemen. Be careful! On this week’s episode, Drea is trying her BEST to bring back the word “scrubs,” while Jia gives a mini tutorial on using “cups” to help niggas run red lights. Don’t worry; you’ll get it when you listen! The ladies are also talking about their favorite reality TV show filled with musty matrimony. No need to thank us for the variety! We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Got a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in some bullshit). Submit to ask.fm/fimhpod9191 Don’t forget to follow us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead ...

112 min1 w ago
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The Roster Gon' Prosper

James, B*tch! James!

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! Three words: Black women DESERVE. This week, Drea & Jia are discussing marrying up and why it seems that every other race is “allowed” to while Black women are expected to be humble and get it out the mud. The audacity of having standards! And Ernest, if you’re listening with balled fists, ask yourself why marrying “you” would be considered a downgrade and work on yourself instead of worrying about what women (who are far out of your league anyway) are asking for. 2020 has been a trash year for everyone, but it’s no excuse for you to continue a life of payment arrangements and service disconnects. We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Got a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in some bullshit). Su...

111 min3 w ago
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James, B*tch! James!

Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! On this week’s episode of your favorite podcast, Drea & Jia discuss the pitfalls of fuckin’ with the Pharoahs (of fuck boys), how to best define your “situationship,” and why discussing intent ain’t a bad thing. Drea is still perfecting her “left cheek, right cheek” action and Jia…well, she’s waiting for the right opportunity for someone to try it so that she can fight. We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

94 minOCT 2
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Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

Pero, Pero, Pero

EHappy Friday, y'all! As promised, Drea & Jia are BACK with another dose of the good stuff you can’t get rid of (and don’t want to)! This week, your favorite aunties are perfecting their “left cheek, right cheek” moments for OnlyFans, breaking down the differences between being private versus secretive relationships, standing DOWN for Cardi B’s decision making skills, and doing a lil’ praise dance because we’re one of maybe 5 women in America who haven’t let Future go raw (but apparently he makes the fuckboys panties go HAM, so expect some miraculous births next year). We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

88 minSEP 25
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Pero, Pero, Pero

New'ish N*ggas

EBet you didn’t expect to see this sh*t coming….. Your favorite aunties are back and 100% ready to remind our cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends that: life is always unequivocally better with us in it there’s always that one (or in this case, those two) auntie you bet’ not EVER put on speaker phone and niggas still ain’t shit Don’t be selfish; share the love for FIMH with your friends and family (and even that “Ernest” you keep dealing with who claims his mama lives with him and not the other way around. You probably let that him run the gas out of your car too. No worries; your aunties are here to save the day). Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

107 minSEP 18
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New'ish N*ggas

Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

EWelcome to the land of wine & congestion…where our days are ending with a lil’ taste of spirit and a whole lotta allergy medicine (bars)! On this week’s episode, Drea shares her quirky celebrity crush, while Jia chooses to make it last with a man who doesn’t meet the height requirement for roller coaster rides. And in the spirit of all things love (cuz you know…Drea’s the love zapped sap), the ladies explore backup boyfriend possibilities, the importance of sending out red alerts to your homegirls when they’re about to take a nose dive into Smallville, and whether or not love REALLY is for everybody (and no…battery operated boyfriends do NOT count). Oh, and of course there’s a rush to knock the rupees out of Daniel Caesar. It’ll all make sense when you listen. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

129 min2019 MAR 22
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Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

Feelings Ain't Ever Been Facts

EShout out to all 5 of you returning listeners! For those of you that chose to stay after our “Don’t @ Us” episode, we’re back with another week of the same fuckery that we’ve provided since episode one. Run us our props for being consistent! In episode 13, Drea encourages Jia not to go vegan when it comes to these niggas and expresses dismay over all the white people STILL behaving badly in the year of our Lord & Savior, Beysus Christ. Jia shares her frustrations with overzealous men, their infatuation with Lubriderm, and ruining the moment…all while reminding you that if you can’t lean on him, don’t rock with him. It’s a full house, y’all. We GROWN grown! Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

95 min2019 MAR 15
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Feelings Ain't Ever Been Facts

Don't @ Us!

E***Retrograde is screwing with us, y'all. We apologize for the audio issue on today's episode*** Gather around, nieces and nephews! Your favorite problematic aunties are back and (possibly…fully) earning the hell out of our name! Wide as outside dicks, “self made” tricks, and fuckboy Pharaoh-isms are included in our discussion for today! Additionally, we share SEVERAL of our very unpopular opinions. And whether you’re for or against them, wehave one simple request: don’t @ us, bro! You don’t want no smoke. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

115 min2019 MAR 8
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Don't @ Us!

Take That Sh*t To God!

EPewn! Pewn! Hope you guys are not afraid of a little “friendly fire” cuz that’s today’s main takeaway. In addition to giving a little country to Dino’s twig, Drea reminds Jia that we can’t turn a blind eye to niggas who repeatedly nig. Jia gives two thumbs up to raw sex but ONLY if it’s consensual. And the ladies wonder if any presidential candidate is willing to take on the task of demanding reparations from the men whoseemingly hold doctorates in wasting women’s time. Tallyho, wage garnishments! Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

119 min2019 MAR 1
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Take That Sh*t To God!

IKYFL

EIt’s LYING season, and it seems like a few of yall’s faves are still out here playin’ in your favorite problematic aunties’ faces! It’s cool; you know we keep a little word sizzling in our spirit for the fallout! What are we yappin’ about & toasting our wine glasses to this week? Jussie and his apparent addiction to footlong MEAT at 2 in the morning during a snow storm. Jia is being her typical hypocritical ass self. Drea is showing ALL of her age with the rotary phones and pagers throwback. And finally…is Jordyn Woods our HERO or a HO?Hey, you wanted the aunties in full form. This is what you’re getting. Note: apologies in advance for the slight audio issue. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

94 min2019 FEB 22
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IKYFL

Latest Episodes

The Roster Gon' Prosper

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! 2020 is filled with a lot of things, but one thing it’s never short of is audacity. Grown men are asking for money outchea, ladies & gentlemen. Be careful! On this week’s episode, Drea is trying her BEST to bring back the word “scrubs,” while Jia gives a mini tutorial on using “cups” to help niggas run red lights. Don’t worry; you’ll get it when you listen! The ladies are also talking about their favorite reality TV show filled with musty matrimony. No need to thank us for the variety! We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Got a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in some bullshit). Submit to ask.fm/fimhpod9191 Don’t forget to follow us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead ...

112 min1 w ago
Comments
The Roster Gon' Prosper

James, B*tch! James!

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! Three words: Black women DESERVE. This week, Drea & Jia are discussing marrying up and why it seems that every other race is “allowed” to while Black women are expected to be humble and get it out the mud. The audacity of having standards! And Ernest, if you’re listening with balled fists, ask yourself why marrying “you” would be considered a downgrade and work on yourself instead of worrying about what women (who are far out of your league anyway) are asking for. 2020 has been a trash year for everyone, but it’s no excuse for you to continue a life of payment arrangements and service disconnects. We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Got a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in some bullshit). Su...

111 min3 w ago
Comments
James, B*tch! James!

Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

EHappy #FIMHFriday, yall! On this week’s episode of your favorite podcast, Drea & Jia discuss the pitfalls of fuckin’ with the Pharoahs (of fuck boys), how to best define your “situationship,” and why discussing intent ain’t a bad thing. Drea is still perfecting her “left cheek, right cheek” action and Jia…well, she’s waiting for the right opportunity for someone to try it so that she can fight. We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

94 minOCT 2
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Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

Pero, Pero, Pero

EHappy Friday, y'all! As promised, Drea & Jia are BACK with another dose of the good stuff you can’t get rid of (and don’t want to)! This week, your favorite aunties are perfecting their “left cheek, right cheek” moments for OnlyFans, breaking down the differences between being private versus secretive relationships, standing DOWN for Cardi B’s decision making skills, and doing a lil’ praise dance because we’re one of maybe 5 women in America who haven’t let Future go raw (but apparently he makes the fuckboys panties go HAM, so expect some miraculous births next year). We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us. Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time. Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

88 minSEP 25
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Pero, Pero, Pero

New'ish N*ggas

EBet you didn’t expect to see this sh*t coming….. Your favorite aunties are back and 100% ready to remind our cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends that: life is always unequivocally better with us in it there’s always that one (or in this case, those two) auntie you bet’ not EVER put on speaker phone and niggas still ain’t shit Don’t be selfish; share the love for FIMH with your friends and family (and even that “Ernest” you keep dealing with who claims his mama lives with him and not the other way around. You probably let that him run the gas out of your car too. No worries; your aunties are here to save the day). Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

107 minSEP 18
Comments
New'ish N*ggas

Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

EWelcome to the land of wine & congestion…where our days are ending with a lil’ taste of spirit and a whole lotta allergy medicine (bars)! On this week’s episode, Drea shares her quirky celebrity crush, while Jia chooses to make it last with a man who doesn’t meet the height requirement for roller coaster rides. And in the spirit of all things love (cuz you know…Drea’s the love zapped sap), the ladies explore backup boyfriend possibilities, the importance of sending out red alerts to your homegirls when they’re about to take a nose dive into Smallville, and whether or not love REALLY is for everybody (and no…battery operated boyfriends do NOT count). Oh, and of course there’s a rush to knock the rupees out of Daniel Caesar. It’ll all make sense when you listen. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

129 min2019 MAR 22
Comments
Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

Feelings Ain't Ever Been Facts

EShout out to all 5 of you returning listeners! For those of you that chose to stay after our “Don’t @ Us” episode, we’re back with another week of the same fuckery that we’ve provided since episode one. Run us our props for being consistent! In episode 13, Drea encourages Jia not to go vegan when it comes to these niggas and expresses dismay over all the white people STILL behaving badly in the year of our Lord & Savior, Beysus Christ. Jia shares her frustrations with overzealous men, their infatuation with Lubriderm, and ruining the moment…all while reminding you that if you can’t lean on him, don’t rock with him. It’s a full house, y’all. We GROWN grown! Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

95 min2019 MAR 15
Comments
Feelings Ain't Ever Been Facts

Don't @ Us!

E***Retrograde is screwing with us, y'all. We apologize for the audio issue on today's episode*** Gather around, nieces and nephews! Your favorite problematic aunties are back and (possibly…fully) earning the hell out of our name! Wide as outside dicks, “self made” tricks, and fuckboy Pharaoh-isms are included in our discussion for today! Additionally, we share SEVERAL of our very unpopular opinions. And whether you’re for or against them, wehave one simple request: don’t @ us, bro! You don’t want no smoke. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

115 min2019 MAR 8
Comments
Don't @ Us!

Take That Sh*t To God!

EPewn! Pewn! Hope you guys are not afraid of a little “friendly fire” cuz that’s today’s main takeaway. In addition to giving a little country to Dino’s twig, Drea reminds Jia that we can’t turn a blind eye to niggas who repeatedly nig. Jia gives two thumbs up to raw sex but ONLY if it’s consensual. And the ladies wonder if any presidential candidate is willing to take on the task of demanding reparations from the men whoseemingly hold doctorates in wasting women’s time. Tallyho, wage garnishments! Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

119 min2019 MAR 1
Comments
Take That Sh*t To God!

IKYFL

EIt’s LYING season, and it seems like a few of yall’s faves are still out here playin’ in your favorite problematic aunties’ faces! It’s cool; you know we keep a little word sizzling in our spirit for the fallout! What are we yappin’ about & toasting our wine glasses to this week? Jussie and his apparent addiction to footlong MEAT at 2 in the morning during a snow storm. Jia is being her typical hypocritical ass self. Drea is showing ALL of her age with the rotary phones and pagers throwback. And finally…is Jordyn Woods our HERO or a HO?Hey, you wanted the aunties in full form. This is what you’re getting. Note: apologies in advance for the slight audio issue. Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast! Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

94 min2019 FEB 22
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IKYFL
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