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Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts and speaks on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health and faith. She is a LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Latest Episodes

Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this episodes, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Allan and Katie from the Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of sexuality and garments in a mixed-faith marriage. This episode also includes discussion about... -Why we are often quick to judge others choices when they invalidate our own. -How and why we try to control or manipulate our spouse's beliefs or choices and how to better control ourselves (rather than others). -How to better respect integrity-based decisions, even when they differ from our own. Listen now by clicking on the link in our bio or by tuning in to Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive, now available on all your favorite podcast platforms! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

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Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Bree and Adam of the Better Me with BodyByBree podcast to do a couples' coaching session! During their conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -Differences/imbalances in desire between them -She exposes the implicit meaning frames between them that create resentment and undermine desire -She offers them a new way of thinking about their choices to create a sense of closeness and friendship -How to develop more confidence and courage in the marriage To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit ourWebsite, check out ourCourse Page, and take a look at our upcomingEvents. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife onInstagramor join herFREE Facebook Groupfor greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode onApple Podcasts,Google Podcasts,Spotify,TuneIn, andStitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archi...

--1 w ago
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Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tamara K. Anderson of the “Stories of Hope in Hard Times” podcast to discuss -Self sufficiency -Overcoming self-doubt -Building self-confidence -Finding strength in trails and -Learning from the imperfections of life. Jennifer talks about her own experiences with self-doubt and suffering and the lessons she learned about herself, life, and God in the face of these challenging times. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as...

--2 w ago
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Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

Mixed Faith Marriage Q and A

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joinsthe Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of mixed faith marriage!Jennifer addresses topics such as️How you can find shared values and spiritual practices when one stops believing.️How you can deal with condescension from family or friends about a spouse's shift in belief.️How each person in the couple can handle the difference in belief maturely or tyrannically.To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.comThis episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is n...

--AUG 26
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Mixed Faith Marriage Q and A

How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Mike Frazier with Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast to talk about... -Female sexuality and desire. -Why you need to stop being “pathetic” :-) and what to do instead. -How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s attractive and effective. -How to better take ownership of your own sexuality in a way that will bless your marriage. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. You can learn more about Mike Frazier, MD here. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided o...

--AUG 14
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How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners. QUESTION #1 My wife had a baby 6 months ago, and is afraid to have sex with me again. I've tried to get her to open up to me about what is going on, and why she is so anxious. I've let her dictate the pace of things so far, but if it were up to her, I'm not sure we'd ever have sex again. Before the baby, sex was a struggle for her. She was unsure of what she liked and what felt good. If I accidentally stumbled on something that felt good, and she had an orgasm, I would try to repeat whatever I was doing during the next session, but that was rarely successful. I'm beside myself trying to figure out what can be done to help her learn to enjoy being intimate with me. What can I do? Or, what can I encourage her to do? Help! QUESTION #2 I think I had an emotional affair. I’ve been married to my wife for almost a decade, and she’s the absolut...

--AUG 11
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Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

Obedience and Integrity

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to talk about the topic of obedience. They discuss questions such as… -When is it good to yield to the authority of another? -What is the difference between the choice to comply based in moral courage vs. obedience that is dangerous? -What is the risk in valuing obedience as an inherent virtue, and how do we reconcile the value of humility with moral responsibility? To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. ...

--JUL 30
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Obedience and Integrity

How to Choose More Happiness

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to...

--JUL 16
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How to Choose More Happiness

Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Dan Wotherspoon, host of "Mormon Matters" interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Natasha Helfer Parker about the messaging around modesty and sexuality and how to teach our sexual values most productively. Topics that come up during this discussion include: -Modesty -Rape culture -The rhetoric we use in the church surrounding modesty. -How to talk to young women about modesty. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic ad...

--JUL 2
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Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Men and Intimacy

In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about... -False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality. -How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal. -How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma. -A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient rela...

--JUN 23
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Men and Intimacy

Latest Episodes

Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this episodes, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Allan and Katie from the Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of sexuality and garments in a mixed-faith marriage. This episode also includes discussion about... -Why we are often quick to judge others choices when they invalidate our own. -How and why we try to control or manipulate our spouse's beliefs or choices and how to better control ourselves (rather than others). -How to better respect integrity-based decisions, even when they differ from our own. Listen now by clicking on the link in our bio or by tuning in to Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive, now available on all your favorite podcast platforms! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

--2 d ago
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Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Bree and Adam of the Better Me with BodyByBree podcast to do a couples' coaching session! During their conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -Differences/imbalances in desire between them -She exposes the implicit meaning frames between them that create resentment and undermine desire -She offers them a new way of thinking about their choices to create a sense of closeness and friendship -How to develop more confidence and courage in the marriage To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit ourWebsite, check out ourCourse Page, and take a look at our upcomingEvents. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife onInstagramor join herFREE Facebook Groupfor greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 9, 2020. You can also listen to this episode onApple Podcasts,Google Podcasts,Spotify,TuneIn, andStitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archi...

--1 w ago
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Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tamara K. Anderson of the “Stories of Hope in Hard Times” podcast to discuss -Self sufficiency -Overcoming self-doubt -Building self-confidence -Finding strength in trails and -Learning from the imperfections of life. Jennifer talks about her own experiences with self-doubt and suffering and the lessons she learned about herself, life, and God in the face of these challenging times. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as...

--2 w ago
Comments
Why You Really Need Self-Compassion on Stories of Hope In Hard Times

Mixed Faith Marriage Q and A

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joinsthe Marriage on a Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of mixed faith marriage!Jennifer addresses topics such as️How you can find shared values and spiritual practices when one stops believing.️How you can deal with condescension from family or friends about a spouse's shift in belief.️How each person in the couple can handle the difference in belief maturely or tyrannically.To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.comThis episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020.You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is n...

--AUG 26
Comments
Mixed Faith Marriage Q and A

How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Mike Frazier with Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast to talk about... -Female sexuality and desire. -Why you need to stop being “pathetic” :-) and what to do instead. -How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s attractive and effective. -How to better take ownership of your own sexuality in a way that will bless your marriage. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. You can learn more about Mike Frazier, MD here. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided o...

--AUG 14
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How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife

Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners. QUESTION #1 My wife had a baby 6 months ago, and is afraid to have sex with me again. I've tried to get her to open up to me about what is going on, and why she is so anxious. I've let her dictate the pace of things so far, but if it were up to her, I'm not sure we'd ever have sex again. Before the baby, sex was a struggle for her. She was unsure of what she liked and what felt good. If I accidentally stumbled on something that felt good, and she had an orgasm, I would try to repeat whatever I was doing during the next session, but that was rarely successful. I'm beside myself trying to figure out what can be done to help her learn to enjoy being intimate with me. What can I do? Or, what can I encourage her to do? Help! QUESTION #2 I think I had an emotional affair. I’ve been married to my wife for almost a decade, and she’s the absolut...

--AUG 11
Comments
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30

Obedience and Integrity

Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to talk about the topic of obedience. They discuss questions such as… -When is it good to yield to the authority of another? -What is the difference between the choice to comply based in moral courage vs. obedience that is dangerous? -What is the risk in valuing obedience as an inherent virtue, and how do we reconcile the value of humility with moral responsibility? To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. ...

--JUL 30
Comments
Obedience and Integrity

How to Choose More Happiness

In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on April 24th 2019. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to...

--JUL 16
Comments
How to Choose More Happiness

Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Dan Wotherspoon, host of "Mormon Matters" interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Natasha Helfer Parker about the messaging around modesty and sexuality and how to teach our sexual values most productively. Topics that come up during this discussion include: -Modesty -Rape culture -The rhetoric we use in the church surrounding modesty. -How to talk to young women about modesty. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic ad...

--JUL 2
Comments
Mormonism's Modesty and Sexuality Discourse

Men and Intimacy

In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about... -False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality. -How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal. -How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma. -A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient rela...

--JUN 23
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Men and Intimacy
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